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Well, he just called and said he would come pick up his weight bench Monday and sign papers then. I am just sick now....it's finally going to be over and I need to keep reminding myself WHY this is GOOD! It hurts like hell and I did cry a few tears because it is an ending...but I have a huge open window in front of me, the door has slammes shut on my ass and I am diving head first through it! (Hope someone cute, truthful, respectful and loving is on the other side waiting to catch me!)
Posted on 05/16/08, 12:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/16/08  12:48pm
" Because you refuse to hang on to a hopeless situation that cute, wonderful, truthful, faithful, financially balanced, kindhearted, man will catch you and treat you like a queen. You deserve it. "
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Reply #2 - 05/16/08  12:49pm
" Just remember you do have someone cute, truthful, respectful and loving waiting to catch you,

That would be YOURSELF :)

always remember that ((hugs))) "
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Reply #3 - 05/16/08  1:34pm
" Ariandme,
Have FAITH and without a doubt your knight will catch you. Be patient. HEAL. Try not to be afraid. Stay strong for your daughter! It all takes TIME!

SMILE "
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Reply #4 - 05/16/08  1:54pm
" I'm with 1lostpuppy. The first person to look for is Yourself. Got to find that, before anyone else will find you. "
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Reply #5 - 05/16/08  1:58pm
" You are wise and have a good outlook as scarey as it is. It won't be easy but I agree with others to just take care of yourself and child and the rest will fall into place.I'm 47 and never done it alone.Putting on my brave self and know I will be ok :) "
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Reply #6 - 05/16/08  2:24pm
" I am right there with you. I am anxiously awaiting the 'feeling' the final papers will bring. He still says he will not sign them, it doesn't matter, he doesn't have to, we have been separated for a year. I just told a friend this morning, I finally reached my last straw and finally cut the last string that I was allowing myself to hold onto. This year has been hell and it has taken this whole entire year to be at this point, but i am at the point now, that if I continue to hold on, then I keep myself and my children from what God has in store for our lives, I rob us of a chance at what He has to offer. We have not suffered this pain for nothing, I believe there is happiness waiting just on the other side!! "
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Reply #7 - 05/16/08  5:52pm
" ariandme, i slammed my door shut yesterday at 1:30, feeling pretty weak knee'd even tho i know it was the right decision..we'll go thru this together "
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