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I've been wondering if the "homewreckers" ever feel shame for what they did. Do you think that they ever feel shameful for what they did or are they like the exes.....clueless?
Just a random " I Wonder" :) Posted on 05/15/08, 11:05 pm |
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My x's gf or wife or whatever will never feel regret or remorse about her part in the cheating BUT I do not blame her for the cheating. Her morals are shady (that's pretty much a given), she had a horrible upbringing (though now that she's an adult, she must take responsibility for her choices), but she isn't the one who made promises to me when my x and I said our vows. I put complete and total responsibility for the cheating part on HIM. Now I don't like her for the person that she is...drug addict, psycho, incompetent, immature, etc. but it really doesn't have a lot to do with the cheating part anymore. Heck, for that matter, I'm not even angry at my x over the cheating anymore. 
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It depends on who "They" are. We can't lump them all into one group. Everyone is different, every situation is different. Some may live to really regret what they have done because 1) then they get it done to them and 2) They were young and foolish and either mature or experience growth and awareness.
Others are simply narcissistic and/or deeply unconscious and will always be incapable of empathy and seeing themselves in the reality of their own lives and how they affect others. So I think everyone is on their own journey here and our lives will all play out differently to suite the needs of our life's lessons...... Or not.....
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No. her "boyfriend" new the situation with us, but he was thinking of fucking her. He cheated on his exwife and left her for my STBX
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