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Me and my boyfriend broke up almost 2 weeks ago now and I have been trying to get over him. When I do not see him I am ok but when i see him all those feelings come back and I cry like a little baby. He told me that he didnt feel the same and that he was finding reasons not to hang out with me. What does that mean?? i dont understand what he is trying to say. He said that he was going to call me this week so we could talk, it is thursday still no call. I want to be with him so bad but he hurt me and I am afraid to even talk to him. It would be best for me not to talk to him, but that never happens. I miss him, I am very lonely and he said that he would be there for me and he is not. I cant sleep or eat just so stressed. I just dont know what I want. I just needed to say something it has been bottled up inside of me.
Posted on 05/15/08, 09:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/15/08  9:50pm
" When someone tells you that they don't feel about you the same way you feel about them and that they are looking for reasons not to hang out with you, it's time to walk away. You have to protect yourself. To continue trying to have a relationship with someone who is willing to hurt you this way is masochistic. I know it's hard but move on. "
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Reply #2 - 05/15/08  9:56pm
" it'll be the hardest thigng you ever ever do..but close that door and do not repeat do not contact him "
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Reply #3 - 05/16/08  9:55am
" this is what my sister asked me, he does not call, he does not e-mail, he does not text me. WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU? as harsh as that question was, i had to be honest, he does not care about me. it hurt a lot and still does, but you can't make him love you. don't keep trying as i did, i kept getting rejected and hurt. finally, i had to have some self respect. i have come to realize the relationship wasn't the fantasy i had made in my head. you'll hurt for a long time, but don't go there, let go. eventually it does not hurt as much and it gets better and better. good luck. "
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Reply #4 - 05/16/08  10:46am
" ah hunny, i know exactly how yr feeling, my ex finnished with me a few weeks back, he said he wanted us to keep in touch which i thought was good, but in the long run it isnt, i cant move on and have nowfound out hes seeing someone else, i knowyou dont want to do it, but the best thing is absolutely no contact, it hurts so much, but is the only way to get over him.x "
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Reply #5 - 05/16/08  10:58am
" Now be honest with yourself, what would you tell your very best friend to do if she came to you with the same situation. "
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