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I love my 2 dogs, but they are a handful. I love my house, but it has issues. I didn't sign on to have house problems by myself or to have to take care of 2 dogs all by myself. Can I communicate this to him or should I just accept it and move on and make do? When we talk, he says, "do you think this is easy for me?" Well, yeah, at times like these, I do think it is easy for him to just run away from responsibility! Must be nice to be able to have NO ONE to answer to. I hate the thought of bad mouthing him to our child, but I certainly don't want my son to think this is acceptable behavior. I just can't believe this is happening to me. someone please pinch me and let me wake up!
Posted on 05/15/08, 06:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/15/08  6:49pm
" I understand I think my stbx is getting off easy and I have had to bite my tongue numerouse times but the kids know who did this and who isn't around "
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Reply #2 - 05/15/08  6:50pm
" Do not bad mouth your ex to your child. If you have appologize to the child. I would say move on and accept it because getting angry and stewing will not bring the man back. I am sorry for all of the pain you are feeling and hope you go through your healing and find true love in the future. "
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Reply #3 - 05/15/08  6:55pm
" I understand the way you feel. The added responsibilities are sometimes overwhelming. Hang in there. "
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Reply #4 - 05/15/08  6:59pm
" I completely understand. I've had so many major house problems since he left in Feb. And he didn't help at all, he let my dad and his dad come here and help me out. I am not mechanically inclined at all but I'm trying. I have a big yard and I had to buy a new push mower cause he took the tractor. I have a dog and 2 cats. One of the cats is a Bengal and it was his. Now he's mine and anytime H is here the cat won't go to him. I agree, they just run away without any responsibilites except to themselves. "
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Reply #5 - 05/15/08  8:25pm
" hey i have her dog and my son's dog and a house with issues, right now it's the roof, so i am sympathetic to your situation. misery loves company. "
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