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why do i allow this?
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my husband of 6 months has once again walked out me without a reason or an excuse....its not the first time and ive always took him back and chased after him. hes gone again and all im getting is abusive texts accusing me of all sorts of things i know i havent done. how do i stop myself from taking him back again?
Posted on 05/15/08, 06:05 am |
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How about reminding yourself that he's walked out not once but twice in a very short period of time and is sending abusive text messages! 
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its time for serious decision making. sounds like he will do this for all his solutions to problems. any consequences to this behaviour? something is vrey wrong with that one
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My H has done this twice too and I had only been married to him 6 months the second time. These sort of men are just selfish and immature. They will never grow up and never change. When the going gets tough they will literally get going.
It helps me if I remember his nasty comments and the tears streaming down my face the night he left he was utterly heartless!! if you love someone you shouldnt put them through that
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You have to begin respecting yourself. When the ow called me and asked if I would take back my cheatin' stbx (who has cheated on me twice), I told her "At what point to I get self-respect? If I take him back, I don't have any." So no, I won't take him back. I still love him, think about him, wish he was home and everything was back to normal, but I have to love myself first.
Please love yourself first. You deserve it.
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I see you have him as one of your DS friends!!! Reading his profile he sounds bipolar or something and needs some proffesional help. You could also do with seeing a psychologist as wanting to expose your children to an emotionally abusive man is just plain wrong! Courier's post couldn't answer you question any better!
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You've only been married for 6 months? Was he like this before you got married? Meaning was your relationship on and off and was he abusive? If so then why would you think his behavior would change after you got married?
If he wasn't like that, then you really need to re-evaluate whether or not he wants to be married to you. He sounds very immature and your relationship won't last if he's only doing that after 6 months being married.
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Don't.
Life is too short to spend at the mercy of someone else's mood swings.
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I don't in any way lessen your pain, by the short time you have been married, but PLEASE realize this is going no where, if this man is treating you this way in this short amount of time,free yourself now!!! You do not deserve this!!
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If you can, print out those texts.
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jemmaloo, please scroll to page 5 here in the discussions post. Look for topic "FOUND THIS" ~~ Bet you will be surprised at how many of these traits this selfish, immature loser has.
Wouldn't be afraid to bet if he is sending nasty texts accusing you, he's probably the guitly one and you are headed for ABUSE if not already...SEEN IT TOO MANY TIMES!!!!
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