Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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IM A DUMBA$$
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I dont know what I was thinking. After our text exchange, I was feeling down. And I know everyones advice was to not text back but guess what. Im a dumbass. I sent him a text saying "I want to see you". He immediately responded "when". I sent "I dont know". 2 hours later, and still nothing back. This mind game has to stop. I dont even know what I would say if I saw him. Now hes on top. Great. Now I nominate myself dumbass of the day.
Posted on 05/09/08, 08:05 pm |
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(((hugs))) I'm with the others cut yourself some slack.One step back and two forward.Hang in there :) 
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um, i just checked in the mirror and my forehead actually says "dumb ass" on it. really, i think i saw it. . . i am sure everyone else has.
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Well, actually 30 minutes after the post he asked if I would meet him for dinner and a movie next week. I agreed so far, but I know us. Thats 4 days away. We're never on talking terms for that long. Guess I dont feel so bad now knowing he misses me too and hes human. I'll see what happens. I know it wont stop the divorce but hopefully I can get some sort of feelings out. Or maybe see what Im not missing.
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text later and say nevermind
if you can make it one day the next gets better only been 5 days not to bad at all then she called today I let my child speak to her and said over and over no I have nothing to say to her but then I had to talk to her and she crushed me again and Im an as@hole for not wanting to talk to her owell dont call me I dont have any thing to say to you
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I say Keep Hope alive while there is still hope. Be cautious and guard yourself, but proceed. No one will fault you for giving it a shot. I want my marriage to get better and to stay together. I don't know if that is a reality, but my husband keeps coming up with ways for us to do things together so I take them. It's painful to watch him go, but I think you owe it to yourself to try. Good Luck.
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I think that if you're not sure you want to do something, don't. So ask yourself.
If you are sure you want to see him, then do. But plan carefully. Think it through so you are not caught unawares. Do you know what you want to achieve by seeing him? If so, maybe promise yourself you'll do that and that's it, at least that time.
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I'm telling you...they need to change text messaging - so that you have 5 minutes to unsend the message before the other person can read it. - Or at least past a warning before it sends, saying, "ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO DO THIS? ARE YOU 100% CERTAIN?"
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If I do go, I will wear my best hooker heels and my new size 5 jeans and long blond hair down. He hasnt seen me since I lost 15 pounds. And he hasnt seen me smile in a while. Maybe it would be nice to meet with him and talk about how great life is going and all of the fun I ve been having. Thats if I do go.
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