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I am sitting here crying... I just got off the phone with him. The things that are sticking in my head that he said are...
1# that he made a mistake by marrying me 2# that I never commit and fallow through with anything. 3# he kept telling me all my faults why do I keep hoping that we will be together again? He tells me that he can see us together if I................. but I think its just him being afraid to totally break all ties with me. Posted on 03/16/08, 11:03 pm |
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hon as long as hes blaming you it worth a cent..if he wanted to work things out he would and wouldnt blame..hes just trying to make it your fault to ease his concience 
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STOP freaking out.. relax. breathe deep, do something to relax.. or give yourself a manicure pedicure..tomorrow is a new day.. forget the phone call and just cope at the moment.. watch a movie.. do`
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It must be difficult for him to be a perfect person living in an imperfect world.......
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Crying is okay. However, just because he says something, it doesn't make it true. Try not to personalize what he is saying to you. He's lashing out for some reason.
Do you think you should consider a no contact period? That's been helpful for me.
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I am considering the no contact. But right now he is paying for everything.
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I'm sorry you are hurting. Try to limit communication as much as possible and don't listen to anything he says. You are a good person and deserve happiness not tears.
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That's what "they" do. He's going to focus on your mistakes just because he needs an excuse. His excuses are definately lame.
It's good to have hope, but you also need to be prepared. Your post reminds me of what I went through months ago and still somewhat go through. Everything is "our" fault in their eyes. (hugs)
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may i suggest no contact , or limit contact to items involving kids, and if you what improve? how about him?
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Your husband sounds like a jerk! He's not willing to take responsibility for anything. He's a child!
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Your husband is not taking responsiblity for anything. He's not a man but a child. Don't listen to him. Do you want to be married to child. he sounds like a jerk.
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