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Do I tell him the truth or wait and see???
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My husband and I of 11 1/2 years broke up recently(within the last 3 weeks) and I knew before I left that their was possibly(now confirmed) someone else. Too what extent I do not know, but you can imagine. NE Way, I went out with mutual friends this past Friday night while he was out of town with the kids and visiting his daughter, and I texted the new miises after SEVERAL drinks and called her a slut and whore. Of course I did not receive a response, but awoke early the next day disappointed in what I had done, knowing my husband would be very angry, and I sent another text message to the girl saying simply "sorry"....he has not said anything to me as to wether she told him...Do I let it go or come out and tell him the truth????
Posted on 05/05/08, 04:05 pm |
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Have you ever heard the saying let sleeping dogs lay. Thats what you need to do here, just let it go, if he brings it up then it an admission of guilt. He is not going to bring it up. 
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I gotta say - you don't really have anything to "confess". If he was sleeping around on you - and this woman KNEW you enuf that you have her number, then the names do seem to fit.
What can you live with? I would say let it go - but is it going to haunt you? You were justifiably angry and throw a few drinks in...well, the walls come down. It happens. I am sorry that you are going thru this now, and my thoughts are with you.
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Let it go.
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also, I did not mention that this is not the first time I have done this before, but this is also not the first time I have found out about other woman either..
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Well now, with that added info - Screw HIM, don't tell him a damn thing.
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I think it's a normal reaction to finding out YOUR husband is screwing around. I know I did the same & called them both trash, whores, etc. So, you did it...what's done is done. I wouldn't waste anymore time on them. They ARE those things...they deserve eachother and you just need to pick up yourself and let them self destruct on thier own. (((HUG)))
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