What is Bereavement

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For All Our Loved Ones...In Loving Memory
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I just received this beautiful, meaningful POEM at my friends fathers wake/funeral

You can shed tears that he is gone,
Or you can smile because he has lived.
You can close your eyes
and pray that he'll come.
Or you can open your eyes
and see all he's left.
Your heart can be empty
because you can't see him,
Or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow
and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow
because of yesterday.
You can remember him
and only that he's gone,
Or you can cherish his memory
and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back,
Or can do what he'd want:
SMILE, open your eys, love and live on.

To all of you my friends...my thoughts & prayers for you and your loved ones..ALWAYS.
Posted on 03/13/07, 11:03 pm
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Reply #1 - 03/13/07  11:54pm
" NO FAREWELL WWORD'S WERE SPOKEN NO TIME TO SAY GOOD BYE YOU WERE GONE BEFORE WE KNEW IT AND ONLY GOD KNOW'S WHY. "
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Reply #2 - 03/14/07  4:08am
" Thank you for sharing this, it is a good reminder of the goal we need to reach for in working through our grief. "
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Reply #3 - 03/15/07  5:01am
" Thank you for sharing the poem with us. There is much truth in those words. Pam "
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Reply #4 - 03/16/07  4:34am
" That made a lot of sense to me ,very comforting .thank you "
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Reply #5 - 03/16/07  12:28pm
" Thank you so much for this poem! I will make sure my husband sees this. I hope it will bring him some peace. happy friday to all:) "
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Reply #6 - 03/16/07  1:12pm
" The poem is beautiful, and i can't wait for the day when i can live the words to their fullest meaning. Thankyou for giving us a reminder that god (or whomever you choose) is with all of us through these horrible days. "
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Reply #7 - 03/16/07  3:53pm
" thank you. "
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Reply #8 - 03/17/07  12:38am
" Thanks for the poem, I shared it with my family and they all thought it was beautiful. "
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Reply #9 - 03/17/07  11:36am
" Yes, thanks for sharing.
I shared with others as well.

And thank you moo for your's too. "
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