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Reply #1 -
07/02/08
12:01pm
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SO sorry about everything, sounds like they are not helping at all but just makeing it worse 
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Reply #2 -
07/02/08
1:48pm
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I don't know all the circumstances but can't understand why they would be so against you & his baby. That is so sad that they don't realize you & his baby were a part of his life & a part of him and they should consider themselves blessed for the baby coming.
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Reply #3 -
07/02/08
2:04pm
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It would take a cold, heartless person to turn their back on a pregnant woman who'd just lost her husband. That being said, I hope you have family by your side who'll be right by your side when your daughter is born. She is all that is left now of your husband. There's nothing you can do about your in-laws. It will be their loss if they choose not to be a part of your life.
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Reply #4 -
07/02/08
3:39pm
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I really feel for you and know that i know exactly what your going through to a degree. It sounds like you have to deal with a more wacked out family than i do. i at least get to go to the cemetary. that is just wrong that you feel like you cant go. my daughter is about to be 3 and i can tell you its a whole new world when they cant yet understand where there daddy is. i dont know what is harder, her talking like he is here or when she cries for him. you have so much to deal with i would not let his family bother you, i know its easier said than done but just do what you need to do whether it be go visit him or cry or whatever. take care and if you ever need to talk i am here.
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Reply #5 -
07/03/08
9:17pm
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i have family and friends here by my side to help me out and they have been great. it just sucks that i am dealing with all this being pregnant and his family acting like jerks about everything. i am so lost with out him and i know if he was here they wouldn't be like this to me cause he wouldn't allow it and they know that. i am an outcast and nothing to them.
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Reply #6 -
07/03/08
9:36pm
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I sure don't know why people have to be idiots!! Doesn't make sense to me. I am glad though that you do have people to count on to help you through this all. Nina
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Reply #7 -
07/03/08
10:11pm
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I;m so sorry that you are going through the this. His mother will never change probably, but remember your husband loves you still,and you need to say well for the baby. It is her loss, and I know how you feel, I wasn't treated that well either by my husbands mother, she didn't really want him with anyone but her. so I understand the feelings a little bit. I would go anyway and visit my husband as much as possible, but if I had a choice I would try and avoid people that are mean to me and have no heart. I hope it gets better for you!
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Reply #8 -
07/04/08
11:21am
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When is your due date? I'll be thinking of you, and if I don't see you online for a while I'll know its because you're occupied with the baby.
I hope you have lots of family and friends to come stay with you after the baby arrives. Believe me when I say you are going to need all the help you can get. Before I had my first, I'd no idea how much work one little baby could be!
I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that the birth of your baby brings about a change of heart with your husbands family and that they come to their senses and try to support you in your need.
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Reply #9 -
07/06/08
6:24pm
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My due date is july 19th but they think she will come sooner then that. I know i sure am ready for this little one to be here. I can't wait to hold her in my arms and start a life with her. Right now i am just waiting on her daddy to let her go and let her come to be with me. Sometimes i tell him its not fair you get to see her and play with her 1st. But i also knmow he will be here for her even tho i can't see him. His family will never change that i know for sure. I am the outcast to them and they want nothing to do with me. Nor do they want anything to do with this baby. And that is ok with me because i have friends and family that will be here and help me out with her. I know things would be different if he was still here because he would stand up for me and his family knows truely how he felt about them and i think thats what makes them mad the most.
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