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rene/reneglenn/renegs has passed away
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i am crying very hard as i try to type this. rene (reneglenn/renegs) just passed away a few minutes ago. i have been pm'ing back and forth with his wife, daughter, sister, brother, and brother-in-law. rene fell unconcious and though an ambulence was called he could not be revived. his brother-in-law said he had been sicker (lung cancer) than he told me because rene knew i had had a difficult life and didn't want me to worry. we got sober about a year ago around the same time and then we relapsed about the same time and eventually got sober again about the same time. though he was dutch and lived in holland and i am a texan we became the best of friends. we laughed a lot, cried a lot but we mostly celebrated the gift of sobriety we shared. we knew we were miracles and were, quite simply, astonished by it. my friend, rene, was a very nice man, an excellent drummer, and a great friend. he was just 49 years old.

rene, i will miss you. always....
Posted on 08/02/08, 09:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 08/02/08  9:20pm
" Devon....I am so sorry for your loss and for his families loss as well.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. "
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Reply #2 - 08/02/08  9:27pm
" As are mine. He left us to go to a better place. I'm not sure what to feel... mixed... sadness or JOY "
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Reply #3 - 08/02/08  9:33pm
" I'm so sorry to hear of this loss. As hard as it is for you Devon, I'm glad his friend and family was with him. Rest in peace Rene. "
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Reply #4 - 08/02/08  9:38pm
" I left for a while but I thought about him after I left the house and wondered what was up and wondered if it might be very serious.

I'm so sad.......... and I'm so sorry for you Devon. "
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Reply #5 - 08/02/08  9:46pm
" Sorry for you're loss, I will be 49 in sept, and I am dealing with hep C. I am scared about it, but hope I can beat this disease. take care and prayers are with you. "
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Reply #6 - 08/02/08  10:11pm
" A dear friend of mine died of lung cancer three years ago with 14 years of sobriety at the time of his death. According to a mutual friend who was at his side at the end, Tom's last words were, "Amazing, amazing..."

Something deep inside me seems to know exactly what he meant. "
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Reply #7 - 08/02/08  10:16pm
" a gesture of admiration to a man who can face death sober, I heard about a guy who had a bottle of vodka poored into his eating tube at the hospital on the day he died ,I wonder if I'm that sik to never surrender GL with your grieving sry to hear it "
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Reply #8 - 08/02/08  10:35pm
" Doc, that was the first time I ever responded to him,,, and I did pray. Sorry. "
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Reply #9 - 08/02/08  10:37pm
" Devon-
It is so very hard to know the right words to say - if they even exist.
You just go right ahead and cry and laugh and remember.
(((hugs)))
Kate
ps tell us a cute story about him. "
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Reply #10 - 08/02/08  10:47pm
" i never had the privilege to met your friend.....a loss takes away not only from the world but from the heart..

hugs and whispers. i have empathy for your loss. "
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