Alcoholism is a powerful craving for alcohol which often results in the compulsive consumption of alcohol, an addiction. The cause of this craving is heavily debated, but the most ...
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well i've been talking to this guy since the end of july.he has a problem with alcohol im recovering from a very bad coke habbit.i've been clean 16mos no drinking or drugs and want to keep it that way.i cant stand any of it around me nor do i care to deal with it in my life.i've told him this..well he kept showing up after he'd been drinking saying he had one beer before he came.after three times of this he showed up a mess reaking of alcohol and filthy.i let him sleep on the couch cause i didnit want him driving but i stopped answering my phone.so a week later his mom calls telling me he went into treatment and he wants to change his life.so i been talking on the phone with him and he's acting like hes my boyfriend needless to say he checked out a week early saying his insurance ran out but he's straight and wants to see me..i dont know im afraid that he maybe still drinking or could easily realapse i just dont want to trust it for my sobrietys sake.he's been so pushy telling me that without me that he doesnt care what he does..i dont want to hurt him or be the cause of a realapse ...what should i do??dont you think its too soon for him to be dating?i just feel like crap about this but i feel i have to be selfish to protect myself i dont want to get hurt either...any advice.
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well if thats what the'' guys clubs'' like you didnt want to be a member anyway.lol..im dreading this phone call tonite but i have all the advice here to let me know i need to do what i feels best..not what he feels is best for''us''..thanks jacker i think your right ..im going to stick to my guns..it'll be better once i get this over with.. 
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Sounds kinda fishy to me. I say you better be careful and remember that you have to come first. Don't take any uneccessary risks at this point. You should be proud of yourself and what you have accomplished. Don't let anybody bring you down from that.
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Keep your focus on your recovery.If he's serious about his recovery,time will sort it out.Sounds to me like he may be in need of a hostage,not a relationship.I know what my brain was like after I got out of treatment,if he's like that,he doesn't yet know what he wants.It would probably be good for you to sit this one out.
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krm and sobernfree,i think youre both right .i feel like a hostage when i get in conversation with him.he's called twice but i havent answered yet i dont know why i feel afraid of his response i guess i know its not going to be pretty..oh well i have to live for me not other people i know i dont want to feel like this and it has been going on to long.i just hope his mom doesnt call with that whayt are you doing 2 him crap..that really sucks..thanks yall..im going to do this tonite im getting up my nerve.
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