What is Ages 1-3 Toddlers

This community is focused on the joys, challenges and concerns faced by parents of toddlers (1 to 3 year olds). The major areas of child development include:

Physical develop...

Join Now

Free, anonymous support from people just like you.

Spread the Word!
Get a DS flyer to post
DS Store is Open
DS t-shirts and more
It's been a tough week across the globe. Share your thoughts in our new 2008 Financial Crisis support group.
Discussion:
Bad Behavior
Watch this 
View More Posts Ignore
I have just put my 2 1/2 year old boy in a new daycare and he is a total bruiser - pulling hair violently on other kids, kicking, headbutting, etc. My daycare provider has told me they will give it "a couple of weeks" and if this doesn't change, they will give me the boot. He was previously in a different daycare, he was hitting and doing some of these behaviours there, but they used the "time out" method and it worked fine. He knew that what he did was wrong and he was sorry about it. At the new daycare they seem to want to treat him like he is older and understands reasoning. They don't want to use time outs, because they dont believe in that. I am limited on my daycare choices in this community... what can I do about my boy to make him stop being so violent?
Posted on 09/06/07, 12:09 pm
RATE THIS POST:
Inspirational
Moving
Helpful
Creative
2 Replies Add Your Reply
Reminder: This is a support group for Parenting Toddlers (1-3). We trust you will do your best to remain positive and helpful. For more information, see our rules of the road.

You may also create your own Member Groups where you can moderate the discussion.
Comment:
Email me when others reply to this topic help
View More Posts Ignore
Reply #1 - 09/07/07  2:29pm
" Is there anything going on in his life that he could be acting out from? I do know that my son acted out when his home life was getting too chaotic. I don't know if ther eis something possibly bothering him but I would suggest trying to make sure when he is with you that he gets lots of love and attention. Hopefully a few weeks of it will help him turn around in his behavior. Other than that, I don't know what to suggest. "
RATE THIS REPLY:
Inspirational
Moving
Helpful
Creative
View More Posts Ignore
Reply #2 - 09/08/07  1:37am
" I agree with Smileyfish about trying to figure out if something is bothering your son. Does he have a hard time separating? Does he have anxiety about "mommy coming back?" Does your son behave like this at home? I would try to find the root of his "frustrations" and go from there.

Best of luck! "
RATE THIS REPLY:
Inspirational
Moving
Helpful
Creative

You might also like ...

Birthday Party Question

By Cali123 7 Replies

I wanted to come here to get some of your opinions. I work full time and my son goes to a home daycare. His daycare …

T.V. at daycare!

By Brita 11 Replies

Need more tactful advice on how to bring up tv time at his daycare. Every time I drop him off or pick him up the tv is …

HELP PLEASE!!!

By devotedwifeandmother 4 Replies

My daughter just turned 2 a few weeks ago and my father in law (who has much been around much until just recently) …

Content on DailyStrength.org is for informational purposes only. We do not provide any medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. More info
Copyright 2008 DailyStrength, Inc. All rights reserved. Terms of Service | Privacy Policy | Report Abuse