What is Abstinence

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I really thought that the man I was with was going to be here for me and the minute after we made love his so called ex called and he got right up and went home to her. What is wrong with me? Why do I feel this need for touch and love and allow myself to be treated like this?
Posted on 07/22/08, 01:07 pm
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Reply #1 - 07/23/08  4:45pm
" wow i'm so sorry. i know you probably felt horrible and used. i don't know why some people have to be like this. "
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Reply #2 - 07/23/08  8:23pm
" Doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you. I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm not familiar with the whole set of circumstances under which this all occurred...but hope you can be kind to yourself. I don't think we truly ever really mess up...we just get knocked with one ADGE (another danged growth experience) after another as part of the journey. Plus, it can be a lonely world...we need touch and love. It's a common trait among humans. Take good care! "
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