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i was raped...does that count against my abstinence vow?
Posted on 06/30/08, 01:06 pm
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Reply #1 - 06/30/08  2:06pm
" no way! there is a difference between sex and rape. sex is pleasure and wanted and goes against abstinence of course. rape is forced against your will and unenjoyed and not pleasure at all sooooo you're good =] "
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Reply #2 - 06/30/08  2:43pm
" no "
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Reply #3 - 06/30/08  5:02pm
" No way! And I am sorry you was raped. "
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Reply #4 - 07/03/08  5:42pm
" absolutely not!

I kind of know what you are feeling...always remember that it was never your fault! You didn't choose to have sex like that. In God's eyes you are still a virgin. I am always here if you want to talk! "
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Reply #5 - 07/03/08  6:15pm
" Any man that commits rape should be castrated and then summarily executed. And no it does not count, because you choose to be abstinent. You did not choose to have sex. Someone forced themselves on you. "
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Reply #6 - 07/03/08  6:44pm
" no. If someone coerces or forces sexual activity- even if you climaxed- it was not your choice. Get some support- rape is every kind of assault in one; your asking the question suggests you are confused about what happened to you. ((((((((( ))))))))))))))) "
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Reply #7 - 07/07/08  10:32pm
" Are you completely out of it.. RAPE is non consentual sex simple! IF someone drugs you and you are not aware thats rape! IF someone forces himself on you after you say no over and over and over thats RAPE... RAPE is about Power and Control not love .. Love is when you have that bond.. Rape is sick.. MY exhusband use to say this girl name Trish he would drug her and sell her to his friends and she would never know.. I should have reported him when he put the ladder against his house and he climb in...

I am not sure of the legal view or standpoint but if you have no relationship with a man and he gets on top of you and you cant move or he forces you to do something to him orally that is RAPE.. sad the cops in this town are assholes and dont believe that to be true... "
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Reply #8 - 07/08/08  8:24am
" nope.... i'm sorry to hear that happened to u.. still my answer is a definate no lol.... {huggles} "
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Reply #9 - 07/08/08  10:57am
" There is no way rape counts at all it was against your will and was forced big diffrence between that and consentual sex. How are you dealing with the turama of being raped having difficulty sleeping or even thinking about sex? If you need someone to give you support I'm here for you. I'll keep you in my prayers :) "
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