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What are your thoughts on ejaculation? I gave up ejaculation some time ago and I feel amazing. It has not been easy and some days can be very uncomfortable.
I believe that sperm is very precious and sacred and should never be wasted.
Posted on 06/23/08, 11:06 am
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Reply #11 - 08/27/08  3:51pm
" I think it is okay to masturbate and ejaculate but NOT fantasize about a real person. This is the sin of lust. If you look upon someone with desire that is a sin. Praise Jesus ya'll. "
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Reply #12 - 08/27/08  7:40pm
" I am confused..is this a religious thing? "
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Reply #13 - 08/28/08  4:47pm
" I haven't had a voluntary ejaculation since January of 2007, when my marriage hit the rocks. I have a nocturnal ejaculation every 2 or 3 months, but other than that I have not had an orgasm.

I'm more focused and have a much better attention span. I'm better able to focus on things that are truly important. "
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Reply #14 - 08/28/08  7:51pm
" It's not a matter of physical control. It's rather one of living to the full one's capacity to love. When the Creator made us sexual he linked the capacity to love with the capacity to generate life. Our sexuality is our capacity to love linked inextricably to our capacity to generate life. If we discover what it means to love, sex falls in line with the truth about itself. Abstaining till marriage is simply protecting my sexuality from being cheapened to level of a plaything. Sex, from being our Achilles' heel, becomes the light that transfigures us. "
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Reply #15 - 08/29/08  10:15pm
" I'd love to hear other people's understanding of abstinence because I want to learn. "
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Reply #16 - 08/30/08  1:53am
" The little wrigglers escape on thier own I find the, wet dream if sex with a female is not an option. something to look forward to.
there are a lot of mysterys surounding them little tadpoles check it out "
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Reply #17 - 08/31/08  11:12pm
" " It is ok for boys and men to masturbate and have sex, but they should never ejaculate unless it is to make a baby. "


dude, thats just strange. why are u so obsessed with not ejaculating?
whether u want to believe it or not---it's happened to u in your sleep whether u remember it or not.

it's not such a horrible thing. "
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Reply #18 - 09/01/08  5:32am
" How do you masterbate and not ejaculate?!

Your firm position about preventing ejaculation by any means neccessary is not in the Bible. You are suffering in order to adhere to the doctrines of men (I won't say who since you already know)!

If it works for you, excellent- stick with it! Seriously, more power to you- that is wonderful- do what fulfills you. That is not sarcasm.

But studies have shown that emptying the prostate at least once a month helps prevent prostate cancer.

I'm not jusdging you- just pointing out that you are following the writings of men, not of God.

If this is written on your concience by men you are in bondage. If this is written on your concience by the Holy Spirit, then I should shut up right now. But I just don't think the standard you have set for yourself is at all realistic for a human- you are destined to fail- it is not even a question.
Don't listen to me though- listen to God, of course. But don't make yourself miserable for the benefit of some dude in Rome with a power complex. "
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