What is Abstinence

Sexual abstinence is the practice of voluntarily refraining from some or all aspects of sexual activity. Common reasons to deliberately abstain from the physical expression of sexu...

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i've been abstinent my whole life..Im only 16...but like everyday guys ask why I never want to have sex and if not guys, girls say wow you really need to get laid..Do I? Sex seems like a pretty important thing in a lot of peoples lives. Why is it so important?! Sex is important but for me its not going to be important until after marriage. and I just wish that one day I could find a guy that believes this just as much as I do
Posted on 12/10/07, 08:12 pm
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Reply #11 - 01/10/08  11:26pm
" I just want to say that I can really relate to you on this. I feel similarly about waiting, and I'm 29 years old. (And I'm not Christian.)

>if my future"partner" sucks at sex then i'll live with that because he's obviosley someone i love. and i dont care about just "sex"

I TOTALLY can relate!

Yes! LOVE is what is important!
I think sex comes in the context of that... "
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Reply #12 - 01/10/08  11:59pm
" besides, since when did "being good at sex" become a competition? It's such a deep emotional thing that merits patience and understanding from both sides (or so I would like to believe). There is MUCH more to making a relationship work than just sex. "
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Reply #13 - 07/15/08  8:56pm
" If your husband/wife is unskilled in bed, see it not as a bad thing, but as an invitation to learn and explore new techniques, positions and so on. "
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Reply #14 - 07/16/08  4:50am
" hey forget about others im 19 yrs old and im a virgin. I know a 23yr old a 27 yr old virgin as well. And they are both beautiful girls, they choose to wait till marriage ATM (abstinence til marriage).The 23 yr old is engaged to be married and her soon to be husband is also a virgin. So its def possible. Dont let our corrupt world discourage u. "
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